Separation Plan

We used to call it the “Lost Mommy Plan” but Jordan grew out of that so now we call it the “Separation Plan”. It spells out what Jordan should do if he can’t find Mom. Wherever we go, we have one. Like at the Red Sox game the other night. The biggest Separation Plan there was actually for the ride in. If you can’t see Mom, get off at the next stop and wait. If you need help while you are waiting, ask someone who works for the T or a woman with children. Jordan doesn’t like being reminded of the plan, but we go over it anyway. It’s necessary. He has to know the plan before he needs it, just in case.


I’m sure you can handle the T on your own, but what about those times when you lose sight of God? When you feel like he’s not there, what will you do?

Each and every believer will have slumps in their spiritual life. It is best to be prepared for such events. Figure out how you feel closest to God and make a plan to do those things when God feels far away.


Here are a few suggestions:

*Post scripture verses that remind you of God’s faithfulness, around the house.

*Play your favorite worship music and sing along.

*Pray

*Ask someone to hold you accountable for continuing with spiritual disciplines and attending church.

*Talk with a friend or pastor whose faith is strong.


Two of the most common elements in the separation plans I make with Jordan are “Stay where you are” and “Call for help”. The second is especially useful out in the woods. “We’ll find you.” I assure him.

Sometimes, in our spiritual lives, the best we can do is sit tight and cry out to God. It’s ok. Don’t worry. God will find you.


So, what’s your separation plan?