Monday, July 9, 2012

Popular Posts

What makes people read a post?

I have been wondering about this and looking at my own posts to see what's happened with them.

Timing and connections are important, I think.

By far my most read post -- with nearly double the number of page views of any other -- was this post on Drunk Driving. I wrote it at the one year mark after a young friend was killed in an accident caused by a drunk and drugged driver. In addition to my usual methods of sharing my blog, I put the link on his Facebook page, which was receiving a lot of traffic. Of all the posts I have made, I am actually glad that one was the most popular. Perhaps it will make people think twice about driving under the influence. I can only pray it is so.


Another popular post, Mourning an Icon, was one I wrote immediately after the death of a long time CYC leader. He was older and had lived his life well, touching many people. Community members would have been looking to share memories and may have been stirred to look at that post.


My third most popular post was Encounter with Racial Profiling which was about an incident that had happened a few weeks before during CYC, the youth conference I volunteer with. I am not sure how that became most popular, except that I messaged the link to the people who had been involved.


What have you found makes some of your posts more popular than others?





CYC is a two week conference for teens that meets on the southern coast of Maine beginning on August 5, 2012. Check it out for yourself or any teens you know!

This is my eighth entry in the July Ultimate Blog Challenge, through which I got the idea for this post. I am going for 31 posts in July.

Sunday, July 8, 2012

Look All Around You and See What is Real

Sometimes I post the lyrics to a song that is speaking to me at the moment. Today the one bouncing around in my head is an old John Fischer camp song. If you attended a Christian camp in the '70s or '80s there is a pretty good likelihood that you will recognize it.


I used to sing this song at Grotonwood and it may be because I dropped my son off there today that it came to mind. Or it may be because of the line "see what is real." God has been speaking to me a lot about reality lately. I even preached on Hebrews 8:1-6 which talks about the reality of Christ this morning. 


Anyway, here are the words. Perhaps they will have a message for you, too.


Look all around you and see what is real
Hear what is true and be sure what you feel
Touch someone near you in love if you can
Give all you have and be part of God's plan


Life is always shallow when you fail to see
That living for yourself will never make you free

Look all around you and see what is real
Hear what is true and be sure what you feel
Touch someone near you in love if you can
Give all you have and be part of God's plan


You may live a lifetime doomed to hate and fear
Because you could not see beyond your selfish tears

Look all around you and see what is real
Hear what is true and be sure what you feel
Touch someone near you in love if you can
Give all you have and be part of God's plan


Life can be so meaningful when you finally see
That only in his love will you be really free

Look all around you and see what is real
Hear what is true and be sure what you feel
Touch someone near you in love if you can
Give all you have and be part of God's plan



Have a blessed day!!



I will be singing camp songs at the Christian Youth Conference at Ocean Park this August 5-18 on the beautiful southern coast of Maine. If you are a teen, you might want to join in. Check it out here.


This is my seventh post for the Ultimate Blog Challenge.

Saturday, July 7, 2012

My boy's going away...

Jordan is off to camp tomorrow.

This will be his fourth year attending a one - week sleep away camp. The first year he didn't want to go. He was quite adamant about it actually. Screamed, cried. People recommended I not send him.

 I spoke to the camp director, a friend of mine. "You know this, Melinda. They cry when they come, they cry when they leave. He'll be fine."

And he was, of course. When we went to pick him up at the end of the week, he was totally uninterested in us. He just kept playing carpetball with his new friends while we packed up his stuff. Now he's a veteran camper. Good thing, really, since I volunteer in camping ministry and he's stuck with it.

I think kids need camp. It teaches them independence, how to cope without Mom and Dad. A safe and worthwhile camp is needed, of course. You want to check out where you're sending your kids and who they will be with. But these baby steps are essential, in my view, in preparing kids for adulthood.  Even when Mom misses her boy.

What do you think?




My son will be attending Grotonwood Camp and Conference Center which I highly recommend.

I volunteer for the Christian Youth Conference at Ocean Park which is a very worthwhile two-week program for high school kids.

This is my sixth entry for the Ultimate Blog Challenge